Be Brave, Be Yourself

Do you believe this? Their is an evil lives in every people's heart. Sometimes you know what is the right to do, but you just choose to live with the mundane fact. Sometime you know hiding is not the solution, but as far as you can avoid it, you choose not to face it.

J. B. Bossuet once said: "The greatest of all weaknesses is the fear of appearing weak." And I know one of my weakness is choosing to hide too many times in my life. People make decisions everyday, no matter important or trivial, it has effects in your future. It is hard to say which way to decide is right, because we are really human beings. And in some situations, emotions take charge, and your choices just came by nature.

I never regret even a single decision I have made so far in my life. Because I know, in that early age, and with such knowledge, the decision I have made probably is the wisest one, given the situation.

But, sometimes, I know, sometimes, things should not go that way. And we can do something to end the "bad" effect of a previous decision or behavior. It is simple, an apologize, or a confession will do. It is not simple, since the apology or the confession might appear to be painful. As far as you have the option to let it go, you choose not to face it. The hardest part is just to muster the courage and strength, and step forward...

Thanks to god, there are people in my life who really affects me and helps me. Talk to a friend, who loves you, and who is also wise, you will have a better insight about the situation you are in. And that, will give you all you need, to face the mess with a light and healthy heart. Just try to be brave and try to be yourself, you will find the sky after the overcast is so blue, so clear, and so lovely. You are going to love your life more and be much happier.